The most frequent verbal response I get when asking for marriage advice is... Don't. You lose your independence. You give up your freedom. And the biggest and most oft uttered warning... the sex stops.
On two occasions, after the sarcasm wound down, I was offered actual advice from the voices of experience.
From advisee number one-Talk. And do things together. If he asks you to go somewhere with him, go. No matter how boring you think it will be. No matter what you are doing that seems more important. It isn't.
The second? Variety. Don't let the sex get boring.
What do you think?